Choice is at the heart of dignity

I’ve been mulling over human agency. In the past I’ve not recognized or respected this right in you. I’ve bulldozed your dignity in the spirit of ‘jollying you along’. In a culture where it’s polite to refuse help, the last piece of cake or a ride in the rain the first time it’s offered, the line can blur for me between respectfully understanding your wishes, and pushing you to do what I think you need and want. I am deeply saddened for the times I’ve made you uncomfortable by trampling on your autonomy. Now that I am enlightened I aim to always accept your first answer, trusting you will be honest and forthright as I stand here with a heart wanting to serve you.